By “medical” I'm guessing you mean pharmaceutical as opposed to other approaches like nutrition, lifestyle changes or counselling.
Firstly, you need to be assessed. If a mood disorder is diagnosed then you may respond well to medication - but that depends on the type and severity of mood disorder as well as individual factors. You should get that assessment done by a psychiatrist or experienced medical practitioner. Depending on what that practitioner assesses, you may be recommended to undertake medication (or not) in combination with any of the other approaches I mentioned above.
Your mood swings may be influencing your husband's behaviour, but that is not to say you are to blame for what he does. To give the marriage hope, you may both need to change some things you do. This is where marital counselling can help. You can find marriage and family therapists here on Healthshare.com.au or through the Australian Association of Family Therapists.
Finally, consider that it may be possible to improve your marriage before the mood swing problem is resolved. Just because the feelings are difficult doesn’t mean you have to go on responding the same way. This is part of the Acceptance and Commitment Therapy approach I use.
Wishing you all the best - and remember to be kind to yourself.
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