How old is your mum? If she is not over 80 years of age she can be treated as an adult. She needs help to overcome her anxiety. Check with the Australian Psychological Association to see if there is a psychologist in your area that can treat your mum for anxiety in the language she is most comfortable speaking. She may need help in recovering from her loss as well.
Are you seeing someone for your own anxiety? It important that you look after yourself . Both you and your mum need to keep your stress to a minimum. As previously suggested, meditation/relaxatiuon recordings can be useful, so why not make an excercise of listening to them together.
I have treated people who have tinnitus plus anxiety and find good results can be obtained from reducing stress and worry about the actual tinnitus itself, even to the point of accepting it is there and not paying attention to it. The greater worry the greater stress the worse it gets, and so on, round and round.
Are you a member or a church or other social group with your cultural background? They can often be helpful in providing assistance and socialisation. If you mum can develop some confidence and have more enjoyment it may help to improve her mood and make her less dependant on you.
I think it's wonderful that you care so much for your mum and I wish you both all the best.
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