Counsellor, Personal Trainer
Hi there,
Something tells me in your question that you would like to be honest with some of your work colleagues but are unsure of the reaction you might face. Trying to pre-empt reactions of others is like trying to read a story that hasn't been written - you just make it up and try to assume and guess what they might say.
What you really want to know is “if I do tell them and they react badly, how will I deal with that?”.
Well, there is always that possibility. And it is something you can think about (a lot!), but you won't know unless you carefully choose trustworthy people and test out your honesty, like you have with your boss.
What I think counts the most, is how you see yourself dealing with depression. That will be the impression that is left with your colleagues. If you are handling depression with support, then your colleagues may relate to you from their own experience, or learn from you that you can be honest at work, and live without fear of people's impression of depression.
Part of being honest about depression is helping to dispel the myths that it is a disorder that you need to fear, be ashamed of or must be hidden. Believing these ideas compounds the misconceptions within our communities, so your honesty is the beginning of change in your community - you champion!
Find me at Walk and Talk Australia to continue the conversation.
Karen
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