Thankyou for your reply, He has only been on the medication for less then three months, and generally it is settling in, although there are days when I see variable mood swings still. Some of moods are affecting mine. I try to stay as strong as I can but there are times when he seems to just want to say things to me to hurt me. Things that when you love someone you just dont say, for no reason. I can be just doing my own thing not arguing, not even being in his way and then out of the blue for nothing he can start to try to agitate me, say something to me that hurts. One moment loving, affectionate, etc. then wow! just tormenting things to distress me. I know that loves me so why would he do this for, I get so confused. If I tell him how I feel, or react in a way to say something hurtful back , though Ive tried to say nothing (but that doesnt always work ) he then shuts off from me , he then plays the victim role, acting angry with me, and not seeing how his behaviour has been the cause of us fighting in the first place and blames me for everything then. Which then leaves me in tears. apologising for things I dont ever start in the first place. Usually he trys to make me jeolous. I know he fears losing me, as he has told me this, so does this all have things to do with past experiences. Is he trying to push me away or is this part and partial actions because of his depression. I just need to know how to deal with it, how do I stay sane, and cope with the anger that builds up, then the sadness for feeling as though he doesnt love me.
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