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    How can I tell my sexual partner about this?

    I'm embarassed to tell my partner that i suffer from vulvodynia (pain in the vulvar area) which sometime affects me during sex. How do i tell him?
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  • Women's Health Queensland Wide provides free health information for Queensland women. View Profile

    I am sure that if you are affected by pain during intercourse that your partner may already be aware of this. Despite your best efforts - unconsciously you may be guarding against pain and your partner may percieve this as a lack of interest in him. It may be useful to provide him with information on the subject and discuss this. Also some couples find that speaking with a sex therapist together is helpful. Trust your relationship - I am sure your partner would want the best for you. You might find the following link helpful
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    Brenda
    Women’s Health Educator
    Health Information Line, Women’s Health Queensland Wide

    Women living in Queensland can also call our Health Information Line - a free information and referral service for Queensland women - on 3839 9988 or 1800 017 676 (toll free outside Brisbane).

    Please note that all health information provided by Women’s Health Queensland Wide is subject to this disclaimer

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