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    How do I communicate with my partner who has PTSD?

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    Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) Relationships
    I am my partner's first relationship since being diagnosed with PTSD. His last partner committed suicide in their home. We really struggle with communication and he goes off on rants and just puts me down verbally and it's becoming more frequent because he's upset that I'm not behaving in the way he needs me to in order to not add extra stress on top of his PTSD.
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    Vivienne Colegrove

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    I have been working in Eltham, Melbourne as a relationship and family counsellor for over twelve years. I draw on current theory and research about … View Profile

    It's important that your partner gets the treatment he needs for PTSD. This, however, is quite a separate issue from the one you are concerned with - that he is being verbally abusive in the relationship. It sounds like your partner may be using the PTSD diagnosis in order to justify his abusive behaviour and make you feel responsible for it by requiring you change YOUR behaviour, rather than taking responsibility to change his behaviour. This is NOT OK. Relationship counselling may be beneficial if your partner is willing to work on making changes with you. It is unlikely to be effective if he continues to hold the view that you are the one to blame. You may also benefit from individual counselling to support you to assertively ask for the changes you need in order to feel that the relationship is meeting your needs.

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