Counsellor
In addition to the helpful advise recommended I would also suggest an appointment with a counsellor who can take you through a visualisation and help you programme your brain in advance as to what you want to experience. You are basically conditioning yourself to expect success. This is different from hypnotherapy in that you are awake and you use new skills to create a new picture in your mind and to feel that in your body. Athletes do this all the time. Find someone who is experienced in this kind of creative visualisastion. In addition EFT works well in this area. Please contact me if you need more information. All the best.
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