Firstly I'd say that it is very early days - I think it often takes me several months to “feel” confident. And the funny thing about confidence is that we want and expect and hope it will come immediately but the reality is that we only feel confident once we have done something over and over and hence are practised in it.
On the one hand there are practical things that you are probably well aware of and doing - good time management / organisational skills being the main one. Lists, prioritising, realistic deadlines (not always in our control obviously) and so on.
And then the other side is how we handle the stuff going on inside…..our scary thoughts, physical sensations and feelings of worry, anxiety, frustration, annoyance and so on. There are no magic bullets here - if there were you would have discovered them. There are, however, fairly reliable techniques that will, with practice, change the way you approach stressful situations. We can learn to change how we relate to anxious thoughts and feelings…..not getting so caught up in it so to speak, not believing everything our mind tries to sell us. Think of your mind like a dodgey sales rep selling you bad products some days……some of it is blah blah and may need to be just treated as such.
Mindfulness skills would also be well worth considering. Learning to stay in the moment and focus on what matters right now can save us lots of time and energy wasted on living in the past or future.
I'd recommend either doing some reading and learn mindfulness skils by listening to CDs etc - or get along to see a clinical psycholgist who deals with this sort of stuff all the time. A book I'd recommend is “The confidence gap” by Dr Russ Harris. He also has mindfulness CDs. For some people books and CDs are all they need - for others it is more helpful to sit down with someone who can coach you through that process.
Good luck with the job……and I imagine each week you will be more practiced and skilled with the role….which may well naturally help the anxiety and confidence.
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