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Q: Why did this happen to me?
Ihad two miscarriages and now a stillborn, why me? Why have i had such a terrible road in starting to have a family. All i want is a child of my own and im constantly faced with devestation at each stage, when is enough enough, should i just give up? Am i not desinted to be a mother which i so much long to be. Its soul destroying to see mothers all around me, where ever i look.
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Your question of Why? is a common question asked after the loss of a baby. Why did it happen to me? Why didn't it happen to …? Why did that baby live an not mine? Each baby is precious and our hopes and dreams for the future die when the baby dies. When losses follow each other, the dream of a family seems so far away and you start asking yourself whether you can endure more pain if you try again and experience another loss. Before you give up on your dream ask yourself one question - will I be regret not trying again in years to come? It is hard to look at families and not wish it was you. That is a very common response to seeing someone living your dream. Please call Sands on 1300 072637 if you would like to talk with a parent supporter. Reply to this post | Report
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