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I have been diagnosed with Crohns for 15 years, but it seems to be getting worse with age
Conversation started by tantareeI have been diagnosed with Crohns for 15 years, but it seems to be getting worse with age. I have been on Immuran, Infliximab and for the last year, Humira. Nothing seems to be working for me, and my crohns is worse than ever. My specialists have said that they are at the end of their medicinal options, and have suggested I have stoma surgery. I have just turned 31 and just been married, I feel like having a stoma would have a huge impact on my life. Has anyone else been in this situation? Does anyone have any info or advice?
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For more than 25 years, Crohn’s & Colitis Australia™ (formerly the Australian Crohn’s and Colitis Association) has been making life more liveable for more than ... View profileHaving surgery that results in a stoma is for most people a very difficult prospect to consider. Fears and concerns on what impact it will have on their life and issues such as body image, intimacy, and the effect on a couple’s relationship can weigh heavily on one’s mind. However by reading informative material that comes from a reliable source and by talking to others who have been through the same experience with a positive outcome can help allay many of those fears. There are several stoma associations and stoma support groups, including Young Ostomates United – www.vicnet.net.au/~youinc that you can contact for information and be put in touch with other young people living with a stoma. You may also find it very beneficial calling the Crohn’s & Colitis Australia helpline 1800 138 029, which will give you the opportunity to talk through your situation at length as well as provide you with a wealth of information about stoma surgery and the treatments used in Crohn’s. Contact with others who have been in a similar situation can also be arranged. Reply to this post  | Report
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Did the surgeon specifically say you would have a stoma?
Depending where your disease is there is a chance they can cut out the piece and staple it back together - called a bowel resection. I have had this done for multiple strictures and disease and still no stoma. You need to ask your surgeon for specifics so you can make an informed decision - also if they are almost sure that it will be a stoma then ask to speak with a StomaTherapist if one is available - they can also point you in the direction for help in decision making.
The upside fo surgery is that you may get your quality of life back - the biggest reason why I have had surgery in past - the stoma was always there as a potential but each time got away with out having to have it done. Reply to this post  | Report